When anyone asks me what it's like being a mom I have a million
answers. It's hard work, it's happiness, it's exasperating, but the word
I think describes it the best is amazing.
I often write on Instagram about the "Things I've learned since becoming a
mom", like how grilled cheese is king or how four hours of sleep is more than
enough (right?) But the really good things about being a parent, the stuff that
makes your heart almost burst, those are the things that I really love.
Here are 5 things I
love about being a mom:
The Bond
This bond between my daughter and I is unbelievably strong and I
wouldn't have it any other way. I know most people would say "duh,
of course she's your child..." But it's more than biology, it's a love
that can radiate with just one look, it's just special.
The
"Newness"
There's a time in your life when every experience was a new
one. The first time you laughed, or ate bananas, or even walked your
first steps. You know this because while you don't remember it, you have
hundreds of sepia colored photos to prove it. When you're a parent you get to
experience "newness" through the eyes of your own child, and well the
only word to describe it is...fantastic.
The Fun
Being a kid is fun. When we grow up we forget as much, with the
bills, and the responsibilities in all, but there is no better time in our
lives than our childhood. I have rolled around in a baby gym, jumped into a
ball pit, and joined a tiny person soul train line. Yeah, having children
definitely increases the fun.
The Learning
I've been to college, taught myself basic knitting, and I drive
a car pretty well, but nothing compares with the life lessons that come with
being a parent. This is when it's your turn to experience that
"newness" I talked about before. I was terrified when my
daughter was born, but I learned along they way. Shoot, I'm STILL
learning ways I can be a better parent. Experience is truly the best
teacher, and I couldn't ask for a better experience than being her mom.
The Altruism
Finally, what I love about being a mom is how it makes me feel.
It makes me genuinely want to be a kinder, nicer, more giving person. Now
before I became a mom I was no grump, but I had a temper that would show itself
in colorful ways (insert Hulk joke) if I felt I was wronged. But
something happens when I look at this tiny human, she inspires me to be the
GREATEST version of my self. It makes me more grateful, kind, forgiving,
loving, because she is the best of me and I want to be the best for her.
What
do you love about being a mom?
I always love your posts. There's truth in everything here that you wrote, and I can relate to. Although being a mom isn't easy, the great reward is being able to grow as your child(ren) grow, learn as they learn, etc. It's hard sometimes, but, for the most part it is filled with funny moments.
ReplyDeleteThank you Kim!! Some of my most funniest life moments happened when I became a mom.
DeleteYes!! Everything you wrote is TRUTH!!! I love the fun of it. I look at the kids playing and think yall are some of the crziest people I have ever met...and I birthed you! It's a love that can't be described simply saying love.
ReplyDeleteRight!!! I tell everyone who asks, there are no words to describe the feeling of motherhood.
DeleteThis post makes me so anxious for Dean's arrival!!!
ReplyDeleteYou're going to be an awesome mom and you will love every minute of it! Can't wait to see your beautiful boy.
DeleteI'm new to your blog but you posts always reveal how I feel. ALTRUISM! I'm usually a nice person but I have become way more sympathetic to people and their situations ever since I had my son. Also, there is no love like the unconditional love I receive 24/7 from my son. It's the best feeling ever.
ReplyDeleteThat feeling is addicting isn't it? :) #momsknow
DeleteI love being a mama. One of my favorite things is seeing my children smile when they do something they did not think they could do, but that I knew they could accomplish.
ReplyDeleteIsn't that the best? Seeing their joy makes it all worth while :)
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